How to Pull Women

By Jean Macneill


Most men hate to admit it, but they have trouble getting to first base with women (click here to find more on this). Approaching a woman for the first time is hard, you're afraid she'll shoot you down. If you worry less about rejection and more about connection, you'll have a lot more success. We hope the following tips will help.

Dating can be very easy with the right attitude and confidence to go along with it. One thing that guys need to avoid doing is committing the same mistakes when given various chances to date girls.

We are offering some advice for men who are unable to relate to women in social situations. If you follow our advice you may have more luck the next time you ask a lady for a second date.

Confidence Is Vital

There's a difference between being confident and being arrogant. A lot of times, men find it difficult to separate the two qualities from each other. For instance, when approaching a girl in a bar, there is a way to go through conversation in a confident manner, allowing girls to easily open up to you or feel as if they like talking to you.

If you approach a women and tell her all the reasons she should date you, you are unlikely to get a first date let alone a second. Your lack of interest in the lady and her preferences is arrogance.

After you have introduced yourself, mention some quality about her that cause you to approach her. Keep it non sexual. Refer instead to her smile or her fashion sense. Relax and smile. Don't brag about your accomplishments. Instead ask about her and allow her to ask about you.

Bear in mind that you need to keep that calm yet sophisticated look to the dating table.

It's All About Her

Girls absolutely love being adored, which is why you need to keep your focus on your date. Show her that you care about what she thinks or the things she finds interesting.

Dinner and a movie is cliched and doesn't allow for easy conversation. Use your imagination and find a date idea that allows you to talk together. Ask about her and what she's passionate about. If she asks questions, answer them honestly and don't brag. You'll know if she's still interested and will accept a second date.

The lady probably put some time and thought into her appearance and you should make it a point to notice. If you make her feel beautiful, she will be more receptive to you. Don't lie. You asked her out, there must have been something that attracted you. Let her know about it.




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